The world is a bit quieter today is the passing of Melanie Ham, an inspirational wife, mother and to the millions of crafters whose lives were enriched by her presence.
On YouTube, there are several hosts in the crafting world that become a name we recognize and trust. Melanie has reached 800,000 subscribers and clocked nearly 71 million views. The work and dedication it takes to get to this level are matched by the thinking of ‘what can I teach today’ and spark an idea.
I had felt when I observed her teaching, She talked to me as a person, not at me as a subscriber. She felt relatable and you could see that she thought about her presentation about her goals for the broadcast.
We Are Never Competitors on YouTube
I got the immediate sense when I started YouTube in 2008 that each of us who are teaching similar things are competitors trying to outdo each other. I went fiercely after another YouTube to try to beat her. I realized a year later, I am not creating anything unique for myself if I am chasing her. It dawned on me, ‘what am I thinking that each YouTube Host is a competitor’. For me, it was an unhealthy mind-space to be in. I later apologized to YouTube for seeing her as a competitor and moved on to just creating my content. It was an awakening.
Truth be told, I don’t subscribe to most of the YouTube Hosts so I am not inspired by their campaigns or mission goals to create content to compete with them. It’s easier to grow your own garden if you aren’t watching others tell you which direction to plant the seeds. It’s made me much happier in life.
While I am driven by metrics to succeed, my biggest competitor is myself. It’s up to me to make my own goals and to try to hit them with the tools in the box.
Once in a while, I will get a comment that I suck or I am not able to reach the person’s objectives. This is where other incredible hosts like Melanie came into play as options to see if they can connect differently with another host. You see, incredible people like Melanie would reach through their communities and inspire. I bet she was always learning and had incredible and downfall days in being public on YouTube. Some days it can be a bit much.
So while Melanie’s teachings abruptly ended, her videos live on to continue to inspire the crafting communities. Her memory lives on with her family and friends and to those community members who were personally touched by her.
She will leave a gap now but it takes strength and character to want to instruct in a public setting, speaking to her driven passion to share a part of herself with strangers, just like me.
To her family, we are thinking of you in your time of grief. She will continue to inspire us.
So sad to read this. I started crocheting because of Melanie and her easy tutorials. I am thankful she was in my life, even though virtually, to expand this wonderful craft. You will be missed Melanie. Peace and comfort to your family and friends.
I am so sorry to hear of your loss, community loss. Prayers and blessings to her family and friends. I hope she will always be remembered, and her family will come to terms with this loss and be able to move forward with her on the other side. I pray for strength for her husband and children. So sad and unfortunate.
Only yesterday I was watching her channel & thinking how much I was missing her inspirational videos. I knew her cancer had returned and wondered how everything was. She was bright, fun, vibrant and beautiful inside & out. Sending love & prayers to her family. Rest in Peace Melanie, we will miss you.
I am so sorry to hear of the passing of Melanie. I took up sewing early 2021 during the pandemic that stopped the world. She was so engaging in her videos that I couldn’t wait until her next video. I now have made 6 x lap size quilts, 3 x crib size quilts and can’t wait to do more. Her dedication and willingness to share her knowledge was so refreshing she will be sorely missed.
My sincere condolences to her family and friends all the way from Perth Western Australia xx
So sorry for her families great loss.An incredible woman who always wanted to help others May she RIP
I have learned so much from Melanie through the years of learning to crochet. M first blanket I ever made was one of her videos. He was a wonderful and very talented woman and will be deeply missed by thousands. My deepest condolences to Melanies family.
RIP ?
What a sad day, Melanie is one of the reasons I kept crocheting until I felt comfortable using a pattern.
You will be missed, but I will think of you every time I pick up a crochet hook!
My condolences to the family?
Sadden and Heart broken. Reading this has hit me so hard. To her family and friends, I send my condolence. This wonderful person that has taught me to crochet with confidence and knowledge. I learned to crochet my grandsons first blanket from her. She was very easy going and explained her videos with ease. From your You Tube subscriber . You will be deeply missed.
I recently came across a tutorial by Melanie. As a beginner, I found her so easily relatable and felt as if she were a friend sitting next to me on the couch, explaining to me how to make this scarf. She told me, “hey, i know this scarf is a gift for your son’s girlfriend, she’s gonna love it!” Sorry to hear of her untimely passing, may she rest in peace. Sending hugs to her husband, children and all of her friends and family.
It breaks my heart to have heard this sad news, and to know we will never again get to see new creations by this lovely, talented, beautiful woman. I wish peace to her children, husband and family. Godspeed, Melanie.
Terribly sad. Melanie had a lovely presence online. Beautiful inside and out. A real tragedy.
My condolances goes out to the family
Hi. I was a subscriber to Melanie. I learned a lot from her. Rest in Peace and Happy crocheting in Heaven. ❤?? Your videos live on in your sweet memory.
How sad! What a beautiful soul lost! I’m so sorry for your loss to her family!!! Her videos may comfort you.
My thoughts and prayers are with her family. Ironically, I just found her channel yesterday. I started watching her beginner quilting series. She was an inspiration! I can see why she had so many viewers.
I’m so sorry to hear of the passing of Melanie , Prayers are with her family. I watched Melanie’s crochet video’s I’ve made some of her things to. I did watch the one that she told all of us that she had that horrible disease cancer it hurt my my heart . She was just to young. When I would watch her she was happy and made me feel happy too . I want to thank you Melanie for what you brought to Life. ??